"Parting is such sweet
sorrow" I know, ironic words to quote when leaving a place of trauma and
chaos and overall negative yucky stuff. But nevertheless, I live, despite this
horrible thing that's happened to me, the smile on my face was always due to
the fact that I was still alive. So as I was wheeled down to a little waiting
plane, heartfelt goodbyes came from all directions and tears were shed. One of
my new friends, a young woman whom I bonded with inexplicably through simple
knowing smiles stayed with me all the way until I boarded the plane. Of course
boarding meant wheeling me on with my portable ventilator on a gurney. This was
strangely okay with me. I was looking forward to the flight, the outside air
hitting my face for the first time, the movement of the plane. I remember the
sun, for the first time in two months, feeling the sun on my face. Simple
things become monumental. My boyfriend accompanied me on that flight which was
not a simple thing for him at all, but monumental for both of us. Believe it or
not I enjoyed my flight to the rehab unit I would be at for the next two
months. I even slept a little.
One of the reasons I landed where I
did was because this was one of the few places that would take me as a rehab
patient while still connected to a ventilator. Part of my rehab was to be
getting me off that vent. This was a world apart from where I had just been.
Upon arriving I was met by my aunt/godmother and my brother and sister soon
followed. My boyfriend stayed by my side until he was settled in to the long
journey back home alone in a rental car. People were there for me, people made
sacrifices. I know I'm one of the lucky ones but there was still some fear and
trepidation as to what was coming next.
Next turned out to be the big room with some new bells and whistles that I could never even have imagined. First there was the little TV that rotated on a pedestal so it could be positioned right over my bed and I operated it myself. My first lesson in what was called "sip and puff" technology. By breathing into a tube or gently sipping from the tube I could turn the TV on and off and change channels. This was independence for the first time since the accident. This was huge. I knew then that this place was far and away the absolute right place for me to be. I had struggles ahead, but hey, I now had TV! The next thing I never could have imagined was being given a swallow test by way of feeding me a few bites of pudding, a cracker and something to drink. Presto, I was now allowed to eat solid food! Yes, all the time in the trauma unit I was on a feeding tube, not pleasant and never to be repeated. Having a ventilator means sacrificing a lot more than breathing on your own. But things were going to change here, for the better.
